“Individuals, like nations, must have suitable broad and natural boundaries, even a considerable neutral ground, between them. I have found it a singular luxury to talk across the pond to a companion on the opposite side. In my house we were so near that we could not begin to hear, we could not speak low enough to be heard; as when you throw two stones into calm water so near that they break each other’s undulations. If we are merely loquacious and loud talkers, then we can afford to stand very near together, cheek by jowl, and feel each other’s breath; but if we speak reservedly and thoughtfully, we want to be farther apart, that all animal heat and moisture may have a chance to evaporate. If we would enjoy the most intimate society with that in each of us which is without, or above, being spoken to, we must not only be silent, but commonly so far apart bodily that we cannot possibly hear each other’s voice in any case.”
~An Excerpt from Walden by Henry David Thoreau~
It has been said that words are the most base form of communication. In a time when everyone is concerned with finding their voice in the world, we forget the impact and importance of silence. When we speak constantly, people stop listening. Words that might be valuable, get lost in the sheer projectile volume. Life gets big and chaotic and turbulent and if we rise to challenge it, we immediately begin to get lost in the noise. This does not necessitate a passive, apathetic approach to life. Practically, we must rise to meet to whatever stands before us. But we cannot forget the value of first withdrawing into ourselves to subdue our inner turmoil. When life gets big, we must get small. If we mindlessly rush headfirst into pandemonium, we will only add to the cacophony and delirium. We feel the need to say the right thing, do the right thing, and forget that silence is also a viable course of action. How many problems in life could potentially be solved by just stopping, and waiting in silence? The Tao Te Ching states that, “No one can make muddy water clear, but if one is patient, and it is allowed to remain still, it may gradually become clear of itself.” If we are able to resist the urge to constantly fill time and space with empty and urgent words, silence becomes not only an ideal choice but also a familiar and comforting companion as well.
We can make our minds so like still water
That beings gather about us that they may see,
It may be, their own images,
And so live for a moment with a clearer,
Perhaps even with a fiercer life
Because of our quiet.
~The Celtic Twilight by William Butler Yeats~